scars by ibana and batman corversation...

you think :Time doesn't heal all wounds...it just hides them. It's not who I am underneath...But what I do...that defines me.
this is what you think...part its good the other part ?well i can say that every single scar you have inside helped to define you ,only if you were brave enough to could see deep throw the pain to growth and let it go at the same time without judge the other person because people that hurt you many times they did not want ti do it to be mean ,even if it feel like it ,they are looking for a definition too that its part of the maturing to know who you are and what you want ,that is a normal process where you help people to go to a next level,and i bet you , you did it to others and you did not want to hurt them and if you did it on propose that its revenge aganist the world where will come back and will harm you only.if you feel like this and you know that you are a good and kind human been,you are free because you now know that is not personal ,its not about you its about life.its true you can feel pain but you want to belive ,and every thing has a after price good or bad ,and nothing its for ever ... i hope you understand my mesage
well it sounds like a little shamed of you when you said you feel used...but my friend if you dont have a good relationship with yourself feeling proud of who you are,etcyou will blame somebody else because you dont want to be in charge of you;its your responsability respect your own limitation and boundaries...maybe you need to limit to who you want to help,love...beliving of who you are and what you do its enoug for you because you give the best as a person ,as a lover ...if the other person failure or does not want to be with you its their problems no yours...sounds weird but it works...step out your body looking at the mirror,and ask who that person is? how the others will looking at you,or think about you.you can not lie to yourself,if you can not keep eye contact,you need to fix your relationship with you and with all those thing you dont feel proud of,after that you will understand how and how much you love yourself and you dont need some boby to judge you because you are strong and the people around love for who you are ,and they will know that share with you its a privilage ...you are the master of your own wordl...rock it